hinaypod:

thedreamwalkersdiarypod:

samglyph:

People make jokes about poorly made podcasts and how common it is now for people to try and make one but honestly I love a medium that any one can try. I love badly recorded audio. I love using a comforter or a closet as a sound booth. I love getting your friends together to make a low budget project. I love people being able to include more representation without having to go through the intensive process it might take to get characters and scenes approved in other mediums.

yes!!! podcasts are one of the easiest ways to break into the creative industry, even if it doesn’t go anywhere! I have a mic, some acting friends, audacity, and some time, and I’m making a podcast!! all my characters are queer, so what? most of my characters have mental illness, what are you gonna do about it?? it’s mine!! it’s really fun and really cool, I would recommend, even if you have no idea what you’re doing!!!

Also, and this is very important:

Poorly made projects will ALWAYS be better than projects you never make because you’re obsessed with its quality.

Because you MADE something. And that makes you a CREATOR.

And maybe it’s not as poorly made as you think. Maybe you need other people to see or hear it. Maybe you’ve done something a LOT of people will love and you can keep making it until it’s better.

Or maybe you can make the bad audio a feature and call it “vintage” or “analog” or make it part of the conceit of your show. That’s what we did ;)

(via cleolinda)

Anonymous asked:

why r u so insane abt the bike helmets

sexhaver:

again, as someone who literally lived in Amsterdam and used a bike as my main form of transit for a year, I Get It. i get that helmets mess up your hair and can get hot on sunny days and are obnoxious to carry around/hang off your bike and the bike lane infrastructure means the average person will never get hit by a car. i don’t even wear my helmet all the time. I Get It.

but the thing is, i’m painfully aware that this is a calculated risk i’m taking. i’m aware that i’m valuing guaranteed convenience over the possibility of literally saving my life if an accident happens. and up until this latest round of disc horse, i assumed other Dutch people were in the same boat: aware of the risks, but choosing to ignore them for the sake of convenience. and while that is objectively kind of a dumb decision, it only affects the person making it, so it’s a completely victimless “crime”.

so imagine my surprise to learn that a significant majority of Dutch people unironically believe that helmets are not just “more trouble than they’re worth” but are in fact totally useless! there are people on here in 2023 proudly asserting that the only reason you’d need a helmet is for collisions involving cars, or that the Dutch are “taught how to fall” in such a way that protects their noggins from slamming into the concrete from 11 feet in the air (average Dutch height).

like, i know cigs and vapes are gonna give me cancer or worse eventually, and so does everyone else using them, but that’s a long-term risk everyone is aware of and disregarding in favor of immediate pleasure. this bike helmet discourse is the equivalent of finding a smoker going through 2 packs a day and claiming that it’s actually impossible for them to get cancer because they’re smoking healthy, organic, Dutch cigarettes

princesskuragina:

princesskuragina:

Corset discourse really likes to talk in sensationalizing absolutes but historically speaking a corset is just a kind of garment. They could be uncomfortable and painful or they could be well fitted and supportive. They could be hyper-fashionable or they could be brutally practical. You could tightlace them or you could wear them with no reduction whatsoever. Most corsets were probably somewhere in the middle. Like bras. Or shoes. To say they were never perceived as restrictive or used as tools of enforcing dangerous/misogynistic beauty standards is like saying women’s shoes never restrict freedom of movement. Patently untrue, but that doesn’t mean those shoes have some deeper moral good or evil and it certainly doesn’t mean we can use that fact to draw sweeping generalizations about the relationships of entire centuries of women to their own bodies. Corsets, like all clothing, exist in context.

Refuting the “corsets were evil torture devices and vain shallow women were forcing themselves to lace themselves down to x inches so they could attract a man” narrative was never about saying “corsets are a universal good, actually”. It’s about considering more fully the variety of ways clothing shaped and was shaped by its culture, and affording the women of the past the dignity of agency and interiority

(via systlin)

kimberly-wexler:

Every account of a serial killer’s life and personality is like, “He seemed very successful and normal. Unless of course you count his obvious and obsessive hatred for women, which we didn’t.”  — Moira Donegan (@MoiraDonegan) July 15, 2023ALT

(via derinthescarletpescatarian)

johnconstantinesdick:

what-even-is-thiss:

cheesy-vibe:

tim-burton-bitch:

what-even-is-thiss:

A fun way to get yourself to do chores when you have adhd is to simulate a sense of panic by setting horrible deadlines that fit into other things that you’re doing.

For example, you set up a kettle of water to boil for your tea. Quick! Wipe down the whole counter before it’s done boiling, for the love of god you’re running out of time! Wipe it down! The water is almost boiling.

The water is boiling and your counter is clean. Now set your timer for your tea for three minutes and of my god there’s cups in your room! Quick! Get all the cups from everywhere in the house! Run! You’ve only got three minutes! Get all the dishes into the kitchen!

Oh would you look at that. You got all the dishes in the sink and now your tea is ready. Nice. Now you can chill with your tea.

I’ve found that little stuff like that helps me. Forcing myself into unexpected last minute deadlines. It fills up empty space and my house is a little bit cleaner.

I HATE that I know this works- legit heating something up in the microwave? Rushing to put everything away before it goes off because there is something satisfying about beating it and you feel accomplished.

So I tried this, and I’m genuinely shocked that it worked???

Like, I’m overjoyed that I found a way to do chores without minutes of trying to force myself, but it actually worked??? What kind of sorcery is this???

image

[ID: The “It’s Free Real Estate” meme except it’s edited to say “It’s Free Deadline”. End ID]

(via timefortigers)

parliamentrook:

armeleia:

armeleia:

Reminders for the Anxious/Depressed Creatives

  • You’re more than what you make.
  • Your productivity does not determine your value.
  • It’s okay to do nothing sometimes.
  • Not everything you do has to result in a product.
  • Not everything you make has to be important, significant, or even good.
  • You can make things just for yourself.
  • You can keep secrets for yourself, whether it’s not posting some of your projects or not sharing your techniques.
  • You’re allowed to say no.
  • You’re allowed to rest.

2023 Updates:

  • Inspiration doesn’t cure burnout. Rest cures burnout.
  • People will wait for you; take your time and come back when you are ready.
  • It’s okay to scrap projects that no longer excite you, even if other people like them.
  • It’s delightful and excellent to be openly proud of your work.
  • Afford yourself the same gentleness that you would afford another creative - negative self-talk is counterproductive and frankly cruel.
  • Self-indulgent creations are satisfying to others as well; don’t apologize for your own pleasure.
  • Actually, don’t apologize for your work at all.

yes yes yes yes

(via cleolinda)

I want to spend time with my friends, but my body and brain create big barriers.

hellyeahscarleteen:

Bunny asks:        

       Hi! Due to neurodivergence, burnout, and chronic pain and fatigue, my sleep schedule is inconsistent at best, as are my energy levels (or spoons) but I want to spend more time with friends and not cancel on them much. Do you have any ideas on how to help with this?        

                   Mo Ranyart replies:            

This is a great question. I can really sympathize with how all of these elements can make socializing more difficult and how frustrating that can be, especially at a time when you may feel like you want extra support from the people in your life. I don’t think there’s one clear solution here, but I do have a lot of thoughts that may help!

First off, I’d try to have a conversation with some of your closest friends, in which you lay out the situation for them in as much detail as you feel comfortable providing. I don’t know how open you are with them about the burnout you’re feeling, or how your chronic health conditions are impacting you at the moment, but if you feel able to discuss these factors at all, I think that’ll provide some helpful context.

I think this is a good place to start for a couple reasons: first, it can help you and your friends choose ways to socialize that will be a better fit for you and your needs. You may be able to stick to plans more easily and cancel less often if more of those plans take your accessibility needs in mind. It also means that if you do have to postpone, change, or cancel plans, they’ll better understand the reasons why. It will probably be easier on both you and your friends to provide that context ahead of time than it would be in the moment….

Read the rest of Mo’s answer here!

(via hellyeahscarleteen)

cardassiangoodreads:

philosopherking1887:

cardassiangoodreads:

I think a lot of people on this website and in media discussion online in general could do more to ask themselves if the problem with a trope is the trope itself or its execution. Take, for example, the puzzling idea I’ve seen a few times on here that science fiction envisioning futures where racism no longer exists on a structural level is somehow racist rather than like, the goal of anti-racist movements as long as there have been anti-racist movements? But then you realize, oh what these people are really taking issue with is the particular way that sci-fi tends to execute that, which is in ways that resemble modern-day “colorblind” ideology where cultural differences just cease to exist or become less common, and the new Universal Human Culture is, of course, really just modern white Western culture re-packaged, we’re still all reading Shakespeare but not the Romance of the Three Kingdoms or the Shahnameh. The reason for that isn’t because it’s impossible for humanity to move past racism, though (which is itself only a few centuries old and varies wildly across cultures), it’s that the people creating this media are themselves products of modern-day racism and imperialism and haven’t fully thought through how much that influences their ideas of stuff like “great literature that our cultured characters should talk about” and how that would likely be different in the future they’re envisioning. And in doing so, they haven’t actually created the “post-racism future” they’re claiming. But that doesn’t mean that more honest approaches to that are bad! Similarly, a lot of stuff about “bury our gays” acts like the issue is just “gay characters dying” period, even in a series where lots of characters of various identities die in fairly proportional amounts, and even when that’s obviously the best way to tell that particular story and letting them live would destroy the story (e.g. the doofus I saw accusing the author of The Song of Achilles of doing a “bury your gays” when there’s no way to tell the story of Achilles and Patroclus where they live, otherwise you’ve ship-of-Theseus-ed into a whole new story with the main characters just having those names, a sort of reverse filing-the-serial-numbers-off). No, the issue is the way that as a pattern in media as a whole, as well as in specific works that treat LGBTQ+ characters (and particularly lesbian and bi women) as more disposable than cis het white men, the overall effect is that queer lives are represented as less valuable and less worth living. It doesn’t mean no story is ever allowed to kill a gay/bi/trans character ever again. You guys have really got to take some time to think about what is the actual problem here? when you do media criticism, lest you risk endorsing deeply anti-progressive or just bad ideas that if you really reflect on, you might realize you don’t actually believe anyway.

Re: the objection to sci fi futures where there’s no more racism, I suspect it’s one or both of two things:

  1. The explanation you described, where viewers take as authoritative not the statements by various characters that humans have moved past intra-species racism, but the on-screen situation exactly as shown – with overrepresentation of white people in positions of power, the dominance of Western cultural touchstones, etc. – and take those things not to be (Doylist) artifacts of the time and place when the show/movie was made, but to be (Watsonian) indications that structural and cultural racism still persists several centuries in the future in much the same way it does now.

2. Some people treat any claim that we’ve moved past intra-species racism in the future to have the same meaning that it does when people make it now: as a perniciously motivated denial of the present persistence of structural racism. This may involve taking a little too literally the point that speculative fiction is always really about the present, not the future, missing the nuance that speculative fiction often works in metaphors: it’s inter-species racism that is standing in for present racism, and it wouldn’t be able to perform that function as effectively if we assumed it was existing alongside persistent intra-species racism.

Speculative fiction works by defamiliarizing things, allowing them to show up in sharper relief because they’re presented in a new context rather than the one that may have become invisible because we’re so accustomed to it. Sometimes that involves showing us an extreme version of a current problem, driven to its dystopian conclusion; sometimes it involves seeing a familiar problem arising somewhere else or in a new way, from the perspective of characters who no longer experience the present version of those problems and can encounter them with fresh eyes. When Star Trek shows new kinds of inter-species racism arising when human intra-species racism no longer exists, it’s NOT saying “we can never stop being racist”; it’s saying that we will have to confront new forms of prejudice as we continue to encounter new types of people, but we can get over them. The efforts to overcome human supremacist attitudes, which regard Vulcan or Klingon culture as perverse or inferior, would look pretty futile if they were shown against the background of a humanity that was consistently incapable of overcoming white supremacy.

I think people who say the second thing would respond to you that they don’t want allegories and don’t think it’s a satisfactory substitute for discussing racism in a more direct, realistic way. And I think there’s some truth to that a lot of the time: Allegory makes it easy to reduce things to broad principles like “let’s all get along,” “prejudice and stereotypes are bad” and feel like you’ve done your job, whereas if you were dealing with a real-world group… well, you can do that too (plenty of media has), but it’s more obvious, more glaring and the creator would nowadays likely receive some (deserved) backlash for it. Allegories can get so abstract that you can have people nodding along with something like that one “anti-homophobia” metaphorical episode of TNG whose name escapes me at the moment, who would very much still be homophobic in real life: because the episode didn’t do enough to make the connection for them. Those people probably had a very different reaction to something like “Rejoined,” which was about homophobia in an allegorical way but also included a lesbian couple, so it was harder to abstract away from that.

Additionally, with something like the TNG episode, there’s something just kind of exploitative to me about making an episode all about how bad it is to be prejudiced against a marginalized group that the show itself is too chickenshit to actually depict openly. I’ve similarly heard things from Jewish people about how it feels to watch Holocaust allegories in shows with zero Jewish characters, or from black people about slavery allegories in shows with no black people or that may even have white characters playing the “slaves” in question.

But just bringing up “Rejoined” to me shows why “allegories are worse” is yet another example of name the problem. The fact is that this stuff can be done well if you’re aware of that issue with allegories of being too broad and toothless and make an effort to counteract it. You can write a sci-fi or fantasy allegory of racism that addresses the nuances of systematic racism. (To give an example: I mostly think Harry Potter fumbled its racism allegory hard, but one small thing I really liked was when they showed that there are characters who are otherwise on the sides of the angels, like Horace Slughorn, who still harbor some casual anti-Muggle-born prejudices, like being surprised by Hermione and Lily’s magical talent. That’s one place where many allegories fuck up: just saying that “prejudice is bad and hurts people, so don’t be prejudiced!” without going into how those prejudices are deeply baked into our society and media and so you need to make an active effort to unlearn them.) It’s just that most people don’t. (Even with the example I gave, Harry Potter could’ve done way more with it than it did.) And “Rejoined” shows that you can in fact include the marginalized group it’s really about – and even if they’re not marginalized over that identity in the fictional work’s world, it makes it harder for viewers to ignore what the story means in a real-world sense, and it also shows viewers from that marginalized group that the creators are on their side. So the issue isn’t with allegory, it’s with bad allegory.

I think a lot of people who are quick to criticize allegories don’t similarly think through the downsides of the alternative they’re suggesting, that racism (or misogyny or homphobia or colonialism etc.) can only ever be addressed well by representing the actual group it reflects in real life. In particular, when we’re talking about sci-fi set in the far future like Star Trek, there are a lot of very good reasons why, outside of backwards time travel like in “Far Beyond the Stars,” they’re not addressing racism in a way that looks exactly like it does today: starting with the fact that it probably wouldn’t. Even if you are to assume that racism today still persists among Earth humans in the 24th century (and given that “racism” itself is only about 500 years old, that’s a big if), it would likely look extremely different from how it does now – different stereotypes, different fault lines, different everything. Certainly, the day-to-day, more individual issues that people criticize allegories for not addressing would be completely different. But of course they’re also ignoring the hopelessness of suggesting that, to paraphrase the classic civil rights anthem, we shall not overcome. I think we can and we will! I like to see visions of the future that recognize that! I just think that creators should put in the work to make sure they actually are that!

(via nonasuch)

derinthescarletpescatarian:

elfwreck:

historyinbitsandpieces:

s-leary:

charliejaneanders:

Every single craft has been paying “The Passion Tax” for generations. This term (coined by author and organizational psychologist Adam Grant) — and backed by scientific research — simply states that the more someone is passionate about their work, the more acceptable it is to take advantage of them. In short, loving what we do makes us easy to exploit.

Guest Column: If Writers Lose the Standoff With Studios, It Hurts All Filmmakers

If the phrase “vocational awe” isn’t part of your lexicon yet, stop scrolling and read Fobazi Ettarh:

Vocational awe describes the set of ideas, values, and assumptions librarians have about themselves and the profession that result in notions that libraries as institutions are inherently good, sacred notions, and therefore beyond critique. I argue that the concept of vocational awe directly correlates to problems within librarianship like burnout and low salary. This article aims to describe the phenomenon and its effects on library philosophies and practices so that they may be recognized and deconstructed.

Vocational Awe and Librarianship: The Lies We Tell Ourselves

I see it in every field I’ve ever worked in: publishing, open source software development, higher education. It describes pretty much every industry that relies on creativity, altruism, or both.

Hey. Peeps on the museum fields. These apply. It takes work not to be taken advantage of because we love what we do. And it also takes work to be better and do better and not rest on our laurels and stop learning

See also:

  • Teachers
  • Musicians
  • Editors
  • Nurses
  • Enlisted military

…There’s plenty more. (I don’t like the military at all, but I can still recognize that enlisted folks are being heavily exploited by the “you’re DOING GREAT THINGS and SUPPORTING YOUR COUNTRY” and apparently that is supposed to be worth more than being paid enough to afford rent.)

It’s not limited to the artistic/crafts fields. It’s anywhere that (1) there is a great need for a lot of workers and (2) people look for those careers because of a strong emotional connection to the work OR it’s traditionally considered “women’s work.”

The fix for this includes ignoring that entirely when asking for better working conditions. “Well, they love the work” does not pay the rent.

And… we should be promoting the idea of “they love the work” means it pays well. We WANT people to have jobs they love; people are more productive when they enjoy what they do; they develop more skills; they’re better at the job. Better-at-the-job should mean “gets paid more.”

But in the “passion jobs”… it often means the opposite, like your enjoyment for the work will cover for that last 10-15% of income, instead of just leading to early burnout and an industry that has no experts because they leave for something that pays better.

Doctors also. I used to work for a paediatrician and the amount that the hospital field takes advantage of a doctor’s good nature and desire to help is disgusting. She would go to work on days when it was literally unsafe for her to drive due a mixture of migraine and nearly passing out from exhaustion (I’m not being hyperbolic, I mean that literally), because the nearest other paediatrician is 6 hours’ drive away and if she takes a day off, children don’t get healthcare. The hospital system gets away with so much re: healthcare professionals because they can (presumably incidentally, not deliberately, I hope) hold the patients’ wellbeing hostage at any time.